Thursday, December 29, 2005

Everyone Else Is Pregnant

It's true! Everyone else IS pregnant, especially when you can not get pregnant. You notice every woman even showing just a little bit and small children will make you cry for no reason. It has been my experience during this time of waiting that I have an uncanny gift of having friends and associates who get pregnant around me. During the last 7 years approximately 10 of my friends or family members have gotten pregnant and some even twice. So it is starting to seem like I have a vibe that helps others get pregnant but it just is not working on me. Every person that I have talked with about their infertility problems have within a couple of months gotten pregnant. They start out commiserating with me and then before you know it they are pregnant and I am left to find again someone who understands where I am. I am so happy for my friends but it is difficult to watch it happen time after time. Luckily, I have a wonderful husband who is supportive and feels my pain too. I know one day we will find our special children but until then feel free to talk to me, you might get pregnant too! Stranger things have happened!

1 comment:

Ami said...

wow, you leave out so much detail at work, maybe cause I do most of the talking huh? well, I think I may keep away from you since geez I don't know, I DON'T WANT TO GET PREGNANT, haha, but alicia you are going to have that baby when God decideds that you are ready, not when the doctors decide its time. Good things come to those who wait....even though its 6yrs.
"ask beleiving and He will give you the desires of your heart....." its in the bible somewhere. :o)
love ya