Just Relax

Those of you not going through infertility problems listen up! We do not, repeat do NOT, want to be told to just RELAX! Guess what, we are trying to relax and you telling us to do so only makes it worse. Everyone always say that if you just relax or try not to think about it that you will get pregnant. Let me tell you, it is impossible to not think about it when you have kept up with every day of your cycle for well over 6 years. You just automatically know when things should happen. Of course, the first couple of years were the toughest because you keep up with everything. However, now it is almost an afterthought and you just go with the flow and maybe someday all of the tests, the medicines and the doctor's appointments will work into a pregnancy. My husband and I have taken vacations and done all of the relaxing that it is possible to do and still are not pregnant. So I am relaxed! Hopefully everyone else is too and will just be supportive. I am off now to kiss on my niece Lauren. Her and her sister Emily remind me why I really do want children. Let's relax and play!