Scott and I have been married now almost 14 years and occasionally we get frustrated with each other. Basically most of our arguments now are over one issue and no it is not money. He thinks I should ask for help more and I think he should know I need help without asking. From what I have learned this is something of a male - female thing. We just don't think the same.
Yesterday, I had to work and so Scott had Erynnpoo all day. I know this is tough for anyone even though she is a happy baby so I took it easy during the afternoon at work so I would feel like taking over when I got home. Scott was more than ready for the rescue but wanted to go to the store and get some things. As we got ready to do this, I realized he was in a foul mood and so tried to avoid bothering him but this led to making him more mad which eventually led to harsh words and things be thrown to the ground outside. We went to our separate corners briefly and then had a pretty good talk about what was bothering both of us. I think it helped clear the air and so now I am trying to ask for help more and he is trying to be aware of when I need it more often.
So that is what happens in a marriage and when you have a new baby sometimes you forget to talk. I never would have thought that would have been our problem but you just get bogged down in the day to day of dealing with diapers and baby food and sometimes forget that you need each other to make it through.
Today we worked ourselves silly. My wonderful sister took care of Erynn while Scott and I worked on cleaning the garage, getting pictures hung in the downstairs rooms, finally hanging the last of the blinds and other minor projects. We do feel accomplished but I am worn out.
PS I learned at work on Saturday that my boss has been hit by lightning (just kidding). I have been a supervisor for 9 years working with her and have had to log in to a phone to assist my staff for that whole time. It really takes away from dealing with my team one on one but you do what you are told. Anyway, she sent us an email and told us we will not have to do it anymore (we will see how long this lasts). Either way, I should get at least one Monday of phone free time and I might just have to cry!
Smile at the baby above!
2 comments:
Yeah I am glad you are able to get off the phones and take time to actually meet your staff. I saw you up walking around w/ out your headset on. You looked free!!
Funny just 2 years ago you would have wished for an argument with Scott about taking care of the baby! You are so blessed with a perfect little angel and a wonderful sister to help out!
Thanks for the props Carey! Erynn makes it easy..I would do anything for her and for Scott and Alicia for that matter! Love ya sissy!
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